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Real talk, for real relationships Join our host, sex therapist Angela Skurtu as she helps couples who are best friends take their relationship from the “friend zone” to the “sexy zone” by normalizing conversations about sex.
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In this heartwarming and grounded episode of the Open Bedroom Doors Show, we explore the foundational power of friendship, touch, and emotional safety in lasting relationships. My guests this week are Byron and Margaret McKie of the Beyond I Do podcast, and they share invaluable advice on what it takes to make a relationship last.
🔹 Segment 1: Sex Positions
We begin with an intimate conversation about the often-overlooked power of cuddling and skin-to-skin contact—especially for couples navigating pregnancy. Discover how non-sexual touch helps build connection, reduce stress, and keep intimacy alive during times of physical and emotional transition.
🔹 Segment 2: Interview with Margaret & Byron McKie
Next, we welcome long-time partners and real-life relationship role models, Margaret and Byron McKie, to talk about the art of friendship in marriage. How do you keep liking the person you love—decades in? We get into laughter, conflict, teamwork, and the little things that build long-term emotional intimacy.
🔹 Segment 3: Happy Endings (Listener Q&A)
We close the episode with a bold and timely listener question: “How important are gender roles in a relationship, and how can I avoid toxic masculinity?” Angela breaks down how rigid roles can harm intimacy and what it really means to show up as an emotionally available and respectful partner.
This episode is all about real love with depth, play, and honesty. Whether you're pregnant, partnered for decades, or questioning gender dynamics—there’s something here for everyone.
🎧 Tune in, touch in, and keep those bedroom doors open.
Find Byron, Margaret and the Beyond I Do podcast online:
www.beyondidopodcast.com
Welcome to @OpenBedroomDoors – Where We Talk About What Really Happens Behind Closed Doors 🔥
Hosted by Angela Skurtu, Licensed Marriage Therapist & Certified Sex Therapist, this channel is your go-to for real, unfiltered conversations about sex, love, relationships, and everything in between.
From the "Open Bedroom Doors Show" - Real Talk for Real Relationships, to interviews and expert playlists, we dive deep into sexual wellness, relationship tips, intimacy struggles, and the spicy (and sometimes awkward) stuff no one else wants to talk about—but everyone needs to hear.
Whether you’re here to level up your love life, learn something new, or just hear a sex therapist say things your grandma would blush at—you’re in the right place.
💬 Let’s open some doors. 💋 #iopenbedroomdoors
My Books:
From F*ck No to F*ck Yes Sex
Helping Couples Overcome Infidelity: A Therapist's Manual
Pre-Marital Counseling: A Guide for Clinicians
You can find and purchase all my books here: https://openbedroomdoors.com/books/
To sign up for my newsletter, or to work with me one on one, visit https://openbedroomdoors.com/contact/ and submit a contact form.
You can support me directly by subscribing to my Patreon account which shows behind the scenes footage of my "Open Bedroom Doors Show"-Real Talk for Real Relationships.
https://www.patreon.com/c/OpenBedroomDoors
You can also follow me on the follow social sites:
Follow Me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OpenBedroomDoors
Join my private Facebook group, I Open Bedroom Doors: https://www.facebook.com/groups/iopenbedroomdoors
Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/angela-skurtu-01008822/
Follow me on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@openbedroomdoors
Follow me on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/openbedroomdoors
Thursday Aug 14, 2025
Thursday Aug 14, 2025
In this eye-opening episode of the Open Bedroom Doors Show: Real Talk for Real Relationships, we cover sex from the bedroom... all the way to the courtroom.
🔹 Segment 1: Sex Positions
We kick things off right on the bed (shoutout to our sponsor — use promo code SEXYTIME at Mattress Dogzzz for tax-free comfort!) with practical tips for keeping intimacy alive during the third trimester of pregnancy. Learn ways to get creative and stay connected when your body — and your relationship — are evolving.
🔹 Segment 2: Interview with Dr. David Ley
Next, we welcome renowned psychologist and forensic sex therapist Dr. David Ley to unpack the rapidly growing field of forensic sexology. Why are more and more sex-related cases ending up in court? What does the legal system get wrong about human sexuality? From false assumptions to expert testimony, Dr. Ley breaks down how science (and sometimes pseudoscience) is being used in the courtroom — and what that means for real people.
🔹 Segment 3: Happy Endings (Listener Q&A)
Finally, we close with a heartfelt listener question: “When will I know my marriage intimacy has hit its peak — when every answer to sex becomes 'no'?" We explore signs of sexual stagnation, how to reignite desire, and why “no” doesn’t always mean it’s over.
This episode blends science, sex, and soul with the honesty you've come to expect from "Open Bedroom Doors Show" - Real talk for real relationships — no shame, no fluff.
Welcome to @OpenBedroomDoors – Where We Talk About What Really Happens Behind Closed Doors 🔥
Hosted by Angela Skurtu, Licensed Marriage Therapist & Certified Sex Therapist, this channel is your go-to for real, unfiltered conversations about sex, love, relationships, and everything in between.
From the "Open Bedroom Doors Show" - Real Talk for Real Relationships, to interviews and expert playlists, we dive deep into sexual wellness, relationship tips, intimacy struggles, and the spicy (and sometimes awkward) stuff no one else wants to talk about—but everyone needs to hear.
Whether you’re here to level up your love life, learn something new, or just hear a sex therapist say things your grandma would blush at—you’re in the right place.
💬 Let’s open some doors. 💋 #iopenbedroomdoors
My Books:
From F*ck No to F*ck Yes Sex
Helping Couples Overcome Infidelity: A Therapist's Manual
Pre-Marital Counseling: A Guide for Clinicians
You can find and purchase all my books here: https://openbedroomdoors.com/books/
To sign up for my newsletter, or to work with me one on one, visit https://openbedroomdoors.com/contact/ and submit a contact form.
You can support me directly by subscribing to my Patreon account which shows behind the scenes footage of my "Open Bedroom Doors Show"-Real Talk for Real Relationships.
https://www.patreon.com/c/OpenBedroomDoors
You can also follow me on the follow social sites:
Follow Me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OpenBedroomDoors
Join my private Facebook group, I Open Bedroom Doors: https://www.facebook.com/groups/iopenbedroomdoors
Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/angela-skurtu-01008822/
Follow me on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@openbedroomdoors
Follow me on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/openbedroomdoors
Thursday Aug 07, 2025
Thursday Aug 07, 2025
Sex doesn't pause when your body changes—it just asks new questions.
In this episode of the "Open Bedroom Doors Show" - Real talk for Real Relationships, Angela Skurtu, Licensed Marriage Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist interviews Diane McClain, a cervical cancer survivor.
This episode explores how cancer, pregnancy, and pain can shift our sexual experiences and redefine intimacy. From the physical realities of pregnancy, to the emotional toll of cancer treatment, to the realities of body image, desire, and discomfort, we hold honest space for what happens when the bedroom becomes unfamiliar territory.
Whether you're navigating these changes yourself or supporting a partner who is, this conversation is about reclaiming connection, compassion, and sexual agency—even when everything feels different.
In this episode of Open Bedroom Doors, we kick things off with our "Sex Positions" segment—this time, showing real-life ways to spice up intimacy during the third trimester.
(Yes, we demonstrate them in an actual bed, courtesy of Mattress Dogzzz—use promo code SEXYTIME to get your next mattress tax free!)
Next up, I sit down with the incredible Diane McClain, a cervical cancer survivor, to talk about how sex and intimacy shift after cancer—raw, real, and full of wisdom.
We wrap it all up with our "Happy Ending" segment, answering a heartfelt audience question about keeping intimacy alive. Don’t miss it!
Welcome to @OpenBedroomDoors – Where We Talk About What Really Happens Behind Closed Doors 🔥
Hosted by Angela Skurtu, Licensed Marriage Therapist & Certified Sex Therapist, this channel is your go-to for real, unfiltered conversations about sex, love, relationships, and everything in between.
From the "Open Bedroom Doors Show" - Real Talk for Real Relationships, to interviews and expert playlists, we dive deep into sexual wellness, relationship tips, intimacy struggles, and the spicy (and sometimes awkward) stuff no one else wants to talk about—but everyone needs to hear.
Whether you’re here to level up your love life, learn something new, or just hear a sex therapist say things your grandma would blush at—you’re in the right place.
💬 Let’s open some doors. 💋 #iopenbedroomdoors
My Books:
From F*ck No to F*ck Yes Sex
Helping Couples Overcome Infidelity: A Therapist's Manual
Pre-Marital Counseling: A Guide for Clinicians
You can find and purchase all my books here: https://openbedroomdoors.com/books/
To sign up for my newsletter, or to work with me one on one, visit https://openbedroomdoors.com/contact/ and submit a contact form.
You can support me directly by subscribing to my Patreon account which shows behind the scenes footage of my "Open Bedroom Doors Show"-Real Talk for Real Relationships.
https://www.patreon.com/c/OpenBedroomDoors
You can also follow me on the following social sites:
Follow Me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OpenBedroomDoors
Join my private Facebook group, I Open Bedroom Doors: https://www.facebook.com/groups/iopenbedroomdoors
Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/angela-skurtu-01008822/
Follow me on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@openbedroomdoors
Follow me on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/openbedroomdoors
Thursday Jul 10, 2025
Thursday Jul 10, 2025
Welcome to The Open Bedroom Doors Show!
Tune in every Thursday night at 9 PM CST for a fun look into the world of sex and sexual health presented by me, Angela Skurtu, a Licensed Marriage and Certified Sex Therapist.
This week, to celebrate SIX wonderful shows so far, we're going back and visiting some never before seen clips from the interviews with our wonderful guests! I also give you a behind the scenes look at what goes into the show, as well as what this show is truly all about. You don't want to miss it!
This episode might be a little different than normal, but if you have a question you want answered on the show, please leave it in the comments below. Thank you for joining us!
=========!!!IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENT!!!=========
The Open Bedroom Doors show will be taking a brief haitus, but will be back to it's regular release schedule on Thursday, August 7th at 9:00 CST, so stay tuned!
Find my guests online:
* Michelle Renee: https://www.meetmichellerenee.com/
* Shane Michael and River Rose Boudoir:
https://www.shanemichaelstudios.com/
https://www.facebook.com/RiverRoseBoudoir/
* Vee Mindful:
https://www.veemindful.com/
https://www.youtube.com/@UC_331E_CEPMyzKtHg8NMQIw
* Nancy Wright:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/prbynancy
You can purchase my book, “From F*ck No to F*ck Yes S3x!” on amazon by following this link:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DZX65DQH?ref_=pe_93986420_774957520
Other Books Are:
Helping Couples Overcome Infidelity: A Therapist's Manual
Pre-Marital Counseling: A Guide for Clinicians
To sign up for my newsletter, or to work with me one on one, visit www.OpenBedroomDoors.com and fill out a contact form.
You can also follow me on the follow social sites:
Subscribe to my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/c/openbedroomdoors
Follow Me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OpenBedroomDoors
Join my private Facebook group, I Open Bedroom Doors: https://www.facebook.com/groups/iopenbedroomdoors
Follow Me On Twitter: https://twitter.com/askurtu
Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/angela-skurtu-01008822/
Many social media platforms don't allow me to make money off my content because it involves sex education. The word sex itself makes the platforms mad and prevents me from getting ad revenue. If you care about my content and helping me continue to make videos like this, please subscribe to my Patreon account to support me. Thank you for being an awesome audience!
Patreon.com/OpenBedroomDoors
Thanks for watching!
Better s3x doesn’t start in the bedroom. It starts in your head. I will help you break free from shame, outdated beliefs, and unspoken frustrations that have been keeping you stuck, When you change the way you think about s3x, you change the way you show up for sex, and that is where the magic happens!
I always say sex therapy is life therapy. I am invested in helping you develop a whole quality of life. That means, I invest in you, your relationship, and your journey. I help you develop healthier communication skills, improve the way you spend time together, and live the life you want with your partner.
My Mission: Help people of all ages develop a healthier relationship with sex and change the sexual landscape for future generations by normalizing conversations about sex. Many of today’s sexual problems could have been prevented with healthy sex education. I create content that focuses on consent, boundaries, pleasure, and honest, direct conversations. I have a whole lot of fun doing it!
My Vision: To create free, medically accurate sex education through playful and wholesome sexual health content provided by a Licensed Marriage Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist. To have a great time and have a laugh. I'm creating content that is playful, fun and educational where people can learn and enjoy themselves. Sex is supposed to be fun!
Values: My company seeks to work with collaborators and sponsors with the following values in mind.
1) Lead with love, not hate. No put downs or abusing people. We’re dismantling abuse.
2) Must have a positive attitude.
3) You don’t have to have a perfect relationship with sex, but you do need to be open minded and willing to grow.
4) Respect people’s values.
5) Must have an excellent sense of humor (I have a big imagination!).
S3x is not a dirty word. It's an important part of a healthy relationship. Your whole body is capable of giving and receiving pleasure. Yet, so many of my clients are having mediocre s3x and mediocre life experiences. There's more to life than work and kids. There's way more to experience in this world. Don't you want more?
I'm Angela Skurtu and I open Bedroom doors!
Thursday Jul 03, 2025
Thursday Jul 03, 2025
Welcome to The Open Bedroom Doors Show!
Tune in every Thursday night at 9 PM CST for a fun look into the world of sex and sexual health presented by me, Angela Skurtu, a Licensed Marriage and Certified Sex Therapist.
In this week's informative episode, I interview Just Jude, a member of the BDSM community! We discuss what it is, how to get involved in the community, and most importantly how to practice safe informed consent when participating in BDSM. Ever wanted to know more about this particular kink? Look no further!
Also covered in this episode... using rope in the bedroom? What's the deal with Shibari rope tying?
If you have a question you want answered on the show, please leave it in the comments below. Thank you for joining us!
Grazia article on Shibari:
https://graziadaily.co.uk/life/real-life/best-new-sex-trends/
You can purchase my book, “From F*ck No to F*ck Yes S3x!” on amazon by following this link:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DZX65DQH?ref_=pe_93986420_774957520
Other Books Are:
Helping Couples Overcome Infidelity: A Therapist's Manual
Pre-Marital Counseling: A Guide for Clinicians
To sign up for my newsletter, or to work with me one on one, visit www.OpenBedroomDoors.com and fill out a contact form.
You can also follow me on the follow social sites:
Subscribe to my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/c/openbedroomdoors
Follow Me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OpenBedroomDoors
Join my private Facebook group, I Open Bedroom Doors: https://www.facebook.com/groups/iopenbedroomdoors
Follow Me On Twitter: https://twitter.com/askurtu
Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/angela-skurtu-01008822/
Many social media platforms don't allow me to make money off my content because it involves sex education. The word sex itself makes the platforms mad and prevents me from getting ad revenue. If you care about my content and helping me continue to make videos like this, please subscribe to my Patreon account to support me. Thank you for being an awesome audience!
Patreon.com/OpenBedroomDoors
Thanks for watching!
Better sex doesn’t start in the bedroom. It starts in your head. I will help you break free from shame, outdated beliefs, and unspoken frustrations that have been keeping you stuck, When you change the way you think about sex, you change the way you show up for sex, and that is where the magic happens!
I always say sex therapy is life therapy. I am invested in helping you develop a whole quality of life. That means, I invest in you, your relationship, and your journey. I help you develop healthier communication skills, improve the way you spend time together, and live the life you want with your partner.
My Mission: Help people of all ages develop a healthier relationship with sex and change the sexual landscape for future generations by normalizing conversations about sex. Many of today’s sexual problems could have been prevented with healthy sex education. I create content that focuses on consent, boundaries, pleasure, and honest, direct conversations. I have a whole lot of fun doing it!
My Vision: To create free, medically accurate sex education through playful and wholesome sexual health content provided by a Licensed Marriage Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist. To have a great time and have a laugh. I'm creating content that is playful, fun and educational where people can learn and enjoy themselves. Sex is supposed to be fun!
Values: My company seeks to work with collaborators and sponsors with the following values in mind.
1) Lead with love, not hate. No put downs or abusing people. We’re dismantling abuse.
2) Must have a positive attitude.
3) You don’t have to have a perfect relationship with sex, but you do need to be open minded and willing to grow.
4) Respect people’s values.
5) Must have an excellent sense of humor (I have a big imagination!).
Sex is not a dirty word. It's an important part of a healthy relationship. Your whole body is capable of giving and receiving pleasure. Yet, so many of my clients are having mediocre sex and mediocre life experiences. There's more to life than work and kids. There's way more to experience in this world. Don't you want more?
I'm Angela Skurtu and I open Bedroom doors!
Thursday Jun 26, 2025
Thursday Jun 26, 2025
Welcome to The Open Bedroom Doors Show!
Tune in every Thursday night at 9 PM CST for a fun look into the world of sex and sexual health presented by me, Angela Skurtu, a Licensed Marriage and Certified Sex Therapist.
In this week's lively show, we have woman's educator and therapist Nancy Wright! We discuss her experience growing up in the Mormon Church and how the concept of sex is approached in the Mormon religion!
I also cover a recent trend in the sex therapist world, hands free orgasms??
Tune in to find out what I think!
If you have a question you want answered on the show, please leave it in the comments below. Thank you for joining us!
Find Nancy online:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/prbynancy
You can purchase my book, “From F*ck No to F*ck Yes S3x!” on amazon by following this link:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DZX65DQH?ref_=pe_93986420_774957520
Other Books Are:
Helping Couples Overcome Infidelity: A Therapist's Manual
Pre-Marital Counseling: A Guide for Clinicians
To sign up for my newsletter, or to work with me one on one, visit www.OpenBedroomDoors.com and fill out a contact form.
You can also follow me on the follow social sites:
Subscribe to my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/c/openbedroomdoors
Follow Me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OpenBedroomDoors
Join my private Facebook group, I Open Bedroom Doors: https://www.facebook.com/groups/iopenbedroomdoors
Follow Me On Twitter: https://twitter.com/askurtu
Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/angela-skurtu-01008822/
Many social media platforms don't allow me to make money off my content because it involves sex education. The word sex itself makes the platforms mad and prevents me from getting ad revenue. If you care about my content and helping me continue to make videos like this, please subscribe to my Patreon account to support me. Thank you for being an awesome audience!
Patreon.com/OpenBedroomDoors
Thanks for watching!
Better s3x doesn’t start in the bedroom. It starts in your head. I will help you break free from shame, outdated beliefs, and unspoken frustrations that have been keeping you stuck, When you change the way you think about s3x, you change the way you show up for s3x, and that is where the magic happens!
I always say s3x therapy is life therapy. I am invested in helping you develop a whole quality of life. That means, I invest in you, your relationship, and your journey. I help you develop healthier communication skills, improve the way you spend time together, and live the life you want with your partner.
My Mission: Help people of all ages develop a healthier relationship with sex and change the sexual landscape for future generations by normalizing conversations about sex. Many of today’s sexual problems could have been prevented with healthy sex education. I create content that focuses on consent, boundaries, pleasure, and honest, direct conversations. I have a whole lot of fun doing it!
My Vision: To create free, medically accurate sex education through playful and wholesome sexual health content provided by a Licensed Marriage Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist. To have a great time and have a laugh. I'm creating content that is playful, fun and educational where people can learn and enjoy themselves. Sex is supposed to be fun!
Values: My company seeks to work with collaborators and sponsors with the following values in mind.
1) Lead with love, not hate. No put downs or abusing people. We’re dismantling abuse.
2) Must have a positive attitude.
3) You don’t have to have a perfect relationship with sex, but you do need to be open minded and willing to grow.
4) Respect people’s values.
5) Must have an excellent sense of humor (I have a big imagination!).
S3x is not a dirty word. It's an important part of a healthy relationship. Your whole body is capable of giving and receiving pleasure. Yet, so many of my clients are having mediocre s3x and mediocre life experiences. There's more to life than work and kids. There's way more to experience in this world. Don't you want more?
I'm Angela Skurtu and I open Bedroom doors!